I need a self-hosted, decentralised chat I am in full control over. I need it to be e2e encrypted with TLS. I need it to be simple to stand up (with no BS ports I have to punch through my firewall). I need it to be easy to communicate with “anyone” that also uses it. And most importantly of all, I need a way to have “supervised accounts” (much like what we intend to do with Yarn.social too) so I can let me kids have accounts, but I am in full control over who is allowed to contact them and who they are allowed to contact.